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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I guess some people are morally (i.e. blindly) opposed to adoption. That's what I gather from some of these responses. I support adoption, and the situation seems pretty normal to me.[/quote] I think adoption is necessary in some cases like a drug addicted mother with no other parent/relative around to step in and raise the child. Giving a child away to make life easier for yourself so you can go to college and do things in the "right" order is ridiculous. Once you get pregnant, you have already made the decision to do things out of order. Going to school while raising a child is hard, but not impossible. [/quote] Then I assume you would also stand in the same judgment of a woman who got pregnant in the same circumstances but chose abortion instead?[/quote] Absolutely not, I'm 100% pro choice. I should have phrased it : once you have made the decision to carry to term[/quote] As an adoptee, your judgment disgusts me. I truly hope I am not friends with you in real life.[/quote] Thank you! Stay away from my kid too. Sometimes people are not in a position to parent. It does not matter why and sometimes you have to look beyond yourself and do what is best for your child. Its not about the parent or their needs. Its about the child and the child's needs. Not everyone has the opportunity to go to school or college. It takes money and some have resources, including loans, and others don't. College requires family or other support, like social services for child care, and that is a luxury unit everyone has.[/quote]
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