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Reply to "Ex DH is a Christian who ended our marriage due to adultery"
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[quote=Anonymous]OP, my ex husband did the same thing. The the pastor at your church try to counsel him when he was committing adultery? Ours wouldn’t. Did any of the other Christians in our life, who attended our wedding and committed to helping us succeed try to talk to him when he was sinning? No one would in my case. Did the church welcome him in the new relationship with his mistress? Ours did. My point is that the church community isn’t going to help you, so stop expecting them to care. When things get hard, no one is willing to hold people accountable or try to help them see the error of their ways. It’s not fair, but that’s really beside the point. You can dwell in the unfairness of it forever, or you can accept that this just is how it is and try to move forward. Life is not all perfect for them, I assure you. All you can do now is live YOUR best life and try to minimize how much time you spend worrying about them. [/quote]
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