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[quote=Anonymous]I expect a lot of this depends on your situation. As is often the case with parenting choices, your circumstances dictate a lot of it, and people have a tendency to argue about it as though everyone has the exact same circumstances, but of course they don't. And you see people on here saying "well everyone I know does X" and of course -- everyone you know probably has fairly similar experiences to you.

We live in the city, have one car, drive occasionally but not daily, and have younger kids (under 10). We very rarely give other kids rides because most people, including us, get to most kid-centric events without a car. Outside of us and our parents, the only other car our kids have ridden is the one belonging to our best family friends, who have same age kids.

Since we don't drive a ton, but when we do it's likely to be on a freeway and a longer distance, we take car safety really seriously. My oldest (9) is in a backless booster but this is very recent, younger child is still in a high back booster (7) and we assume will stay there for a while. I have never heard either kid complain about their carseat/booster, worry that their peers are not in them anymore (it is my impression they mostly are, but again, people don't drive a ton), and because we only drive a couple times a week, we don't find it onerous to deal with the car seats when we do.

I anticipate that a family with a different lifestyle, driving frequency, and peer group, might make other choices. That is fine.

I think it's weird that people are judgmental or assume we are insanely conservative because of our carseat choices. I don't get the judgement either way. There are some minimum legal requirements, some expert recommendations, and then families have to make their own choices. [/quote]

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