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[quote=Anonymous]OP, what you feel is normal. Find a way to communicate to her what you want to change specifically - don't overexplain or apologize for your feelings. Just be very clear and specific: I would like that birthday invitations come to us as parents. I would prefer that you don't disclose (whatever she was gossiping about). It's perfectly ok to set boundaries, what you don't want is for your resentment or hard feelings to fester - that chips away at your mental health and quality of life. Having a household employee is about meeting the family needs, and it costs a lot precisely because it's 1:1 dedicated attention. If the nanny is unable or unwilling to make changes after you clearly stated your requests - then it's indeed time for change, in whatever shape feels right to you - stay at home, get a new employee, etc.[/quote]
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