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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What a small person you are.  I only wish I could do something like that for my in-laws or mother but they are lucky enough to be self sufficient.

If you can’t afford to do it then maybe help her increase the monthly payments. Otherwise give her the money and let her have some peace.

My husband wouldn’t have to discuss giving money to family and neither would I, especially under the $5,000 mark. [/quote]

Must be nice to be rich.

There will be no peace if you give her the money! She's going to continue to make bad decisions, just like she always has. And now that you've taught her she can get money from you, she'll come back for more and more and more. No peace for her or for you.

All these people saying give money for the sake of your marriage are being short-sighted. You can ruin your marriage very fast by not being a team, not respecting each other, and not having boundaries. If your DH wants to give money without your consent and without answering your very reasonable questions, he's the one who's damaging the marriage.[/quote]

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