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[quote=Anonymous]OP's came up with this gap work idea and set it up by himself. That tells us OP is now dealing with an adult, though a young, inexperienced adult. You can't push someone like that into something they don't want to do. Shoving him into a college he doesn't want to go to with the vague plans he has for his major will just be a waste, with kid blaming OP every time something goes wrong. Deferral with a gap year to reapply elsewhere, stipulating to kid and grandparents (make sure that they know that you will be very unhappy if they try to influence DS to stay beyond next year) that DS enters college next year is the best you can do.[/quote]
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