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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here- Omg this thread is getting detailed quickly! I am not the bless your heart person! Lol! Dcum is hilarious

Honestly looking for advice. I know you people love to tear down and criticize, but the truth of these conflicts is that i take the masculine role of defending our family and I find it unsexy and demoralizing and lonely. I wonder if it would be better to be divorced rather than have to continue on this way.

Thanks for the real advice. It’s appreciated![/quote]

A few things:

- these are pretty normal fights
- "viscously attached" is a huge, dramatic exaggeration that will not get you taken seriously; it's bad enough for MIL to be rude or a friend to yell at you, but exaggerating is not necessary and makes you look silly
- your gender role issues are your issues: your DH doesn't owe you sexy protection because he's a man

You sound like a person with some normal occasional interpersonal challenges who is dramatic and petty and therefore these things get out of hand. That's just as much on you as it is your husband. More so, even.

Divorce is a very very odd place to jump in reaction to these things. [/quote]

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