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Reply to "How would you react: DH says he's "done working.""
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For him to be completely retired and he isn’t even fifty years old yet!!? What the heck?? This would be a huge dealbreaker, turnoff, etc. Tell him this isn’t the life you signed up for. He needs to still work because it is not fair that you are paying 80% of the expenses along w/keeping the home fires burning. If he remains stubborn and refuses to get another job - I would for sure start off w/a formal separation from him.[/quote] Military you do 20-30 years. You start at 18-22 and you retire at 20, you can retire at 38. [/quote] You retire from THAT JOB. You don’t sit on your ass with your hand in your pants for the next 40 years.[/quote] Especially if it only covers 20% of expenses. You will blow through your savings in no time. Don’t know any able-bodied career military who retired in their early 40s and refused to work. [/quote]
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