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[quote=Anonymous]Honestly I would not do group things with her in the same regularity. It isn’t socially appropriate. I would invite her to like every 5th things to establish space. See her one on one if the friendship is important to you and you are comfortable discussing her trauma in that situation. If the trauma is more recent and this was not her typical behavior I might be more patient. But if she’s brining up childhood or college trauma at every social event for the past 15 years that’s a hard pass. Someone who brings up their trauma every game night my guess has some sort of personality disorder, maybe borderline, and that’s just a lot to deal with and are you actually real friends? I don’t take that type of friendship on. Harsh but true. [/quote]
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