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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was in this friend's situation. My solution was to stop talking to people. Trauma is isolating. People don't understand, and though they love to think of themselves as lovely and caring, they're really just great big hypocrites.

Such a shame about your mood having been brought down, though, right?[/quote]

I’m doing this now.

Sorry my annoying life is a bummer, man. I didn’t mean to lose everything. But I did. Whomp whomp. I’ve learned that it’s easier to avoid people than risk being a “bummer” at a party. Traumas effects are so far flung. [/quote]

If you were truly “traumatized,” you wouldn’t be at the party at the first place. I did not attend parties following my traumatic birth experience and PTSD. My friend who just lost her husband at the age of 39 is not attending parties. “Traumatized” people do not go to parties until they work through their issues and are feeling stronger and happier. And if they show up and realize they can’t handle it, they quietly leave. They do not ruin a celebratory event for others. They know the difference between a party and a small gathering of close friends, where it would be fine to say hey I need a little extra support tonight. [/quote]

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