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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would start treating their texts like FB posts. Something you might look at when you're not busy but, otherwise, ignore. They're showing you who you they are. Believe them. If they need/want something, let them go through your DH. I think once you can let go of your (justifiable) anger/frustration/hurt, you'll have more peace of mind. Don't let this take up any more of your precious energy. Hugs. [/quote] Haven't thought of it this way but this is the way I handle texts like that from my ILs. And to commiserate OP, I am very pregnant and a SAHM to a toddler. While my DH was on a work trip recently I seriously injured myself and all outgoing flights were canceled due to weather where my DH was. Despite living 5 minutes away my ILs were zero help- they were 'busy' the entire time but offered for us to come "visit" when my DH was back from his trip. Unbelievable. [/quote] You SAH at have one child. What do you need help with? [/quote]
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