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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Need to go to places with shared interests.  [/quote]

THIS. OP, you've focused on looks and wardrobe, so PPs have as well. Yes, you DO need to look more your age and like a professional adult and a grown woman, but you also need to think less about physical "hotness" overall and more about what you really want in someone else. Like this PP says: Involve yourself in places, or rather activities, based on interests. Dates based on looks are OK but what is going to last--and be a LOT more fun than always wondering if you're hot "enough" for a next date-- is just doing what you personally value and find interesting or entertaining, and then meeting people through that. I know DCUM will yell that "it's too hard to date now, you just have to use apps" etc. but if you really want more than superficial dating, you'll do better making friends, then possibly finding dates, while doing things you like and consider important to you. Join something, participate in something, whatever. Be a joiner and an involved person. You'll be happy, that will show, and that is attractive. And you and your date(s) will have something real to talk about.[/quote]

I think the two PP gave the tried and true advice here.[/quote]

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