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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Well anyway here we go with the same old story abut the greek system, and no one is answering the OP's question anymore. I am sorry that some of your DD's had bad experiences and didn't get into the popular houses. Mine didn't either. She stayed the course and spoke to the houses that did invite her back and is now in a house she truly loves. [/quote] You're making a lot of assumptions. I was in a top 3 house on my campus. I had a fine experience there is no envy on my part. But, when the curtain was pulled back in rush and I was on the other side, I was absolutely appalled at the things that were said about and how judgmental some -not all- of the girls are. And lbh, you're not delving into the depths of their soul in the first two parties (there were 4 rounds altogether) since you spend minutes with the girls you meet. So it's easy for people, especially certain people, to judge based on how someone looks and what they wear vs. their character, kindness, grades, etc. It just is. My house voted on every girl, fwiw. If the "guide" sister for the girl rushing recommended a yes/no, you could challenge that and give your opinion or observations before the entire house voted. Some of the things said were really gross. [/quote]
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