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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My H & I are separated & have been for several years. Zero chance or interest in reconciliation. Live in different states. He has a GF (divorced mom of two  elementary kids). He comes to stay at my place (kids are with me) every other weekend. We are doing Xmas together with my mom, sister & family like we always have. I remain very close / connected with my SILs. He says (& I believe) that the GF is fully aware & OK with the situation. We split all child & household expenses 50/50. [/quote]

He pays 50/50 for a place he stays in 4 nights a month and has to celebrate holidays with your family to see his kids? I can see how that works well for you! Not much has changed for you but why no divorce?[/quote]

He lives in our much bigger, nicer house in the other state and I continue to pay 50% of the costs of running that house that I only spend a few weeks in all year. He remains on all my excellent insurance policies (car, heath, dental, vision, etc.). I think it’s a net loss for me unless you consider time with kids which is my #1 priority. We will ultimately divorce although no plans for that, for now. We are considering a legal separation. I think the reason we haven’t done anything so far is finances. It is definitely unorthodox which we recognize. Nobody else needs to be OK with it except I guess his GF! 
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And yet he has a serious GF? Sounds like borderline bigamy! As well as a huge waste of resources.[/quote]

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