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[quote=Anonymous]This is so dumb. The LW isn't even talking about someone who dislikes dogs. She's mad that he's indifferent to her dog. Like it upsets her that he's not falling all over himself about how great her dog is. That's ridiculous.

I like animals and have had pets my whole life (just a cat now, I live in an apartment and have a kid and a dog doesn't work for us right now) but sometimes I'm indifferent to other people's pets. They are like humans -- some have personalities that I just click with and some don't. I don't dislike them, but I don't go seeking them out either. I have some friends who have dogs they've never really trained not to jump up on people, which I find annoying, so I avoid those dogs a bit because I don't like being jumped on. I actually was attacked by a poorly socialized dog many years ago so I am wary about dogs that jump or just aren't well trained because I've seen what happens when a dog like this feels cornered or threatened and it can be scary.

Anyway, the LW sounds like she's being narcissistic and thinks this guy's feelings about her dog are somehow a reflection of his feelings about her. But I also think probably they aren't a good fit because she obviously seems to be looking for someone who is really into her dog, and this guy isn't. But that doesn't make him a BAD PERSON. FFS.[/quote]

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