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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What sort of proof did you find that gave you all of that information? If your marriage is a good as you say, why were you snooping? My biggest concern would be your kids finding out and growing up thinking that it is acceptable behavior. [/quote]

He fell asleep with his open laptop on his lap. I moved it so it wouldn’t fall off the bed in the night, which I’ve done plenty of times before. This time, What was on the screen was extremely shocking and could only be one thing. I then did snoop and found lots lots more. Texts, meet ups, dating profiles, many things correlating with his business travel. Connecting various other dots, and knowing his patterns of behavior, it’s all very very clear. He’s actively making plans for more including tomorrow. And this weekend he has a work trip that I am certain will provide further opportunities.

I am very sad.[/quote]

I'm sorry. Do you plan to keep having sex with him knowing what you know now? If you stop your intimate relationship with him then your kids will grow up seeing an affectionless marriage. [/quote]

OP I'm so sorry, this is a terrible, terrible thing to go through. One thing that strikes me as odd is he doesn't seem to be trying very hard to keep this from you if he's using his laptop in bed with information you can easily find. When my DH cheated, I found out through a strange coincidence, but he very clearly was trying to keep it from me. Maybe he knows you will be reluctant to leave and wants to clear his conscience? [/quote]

A lot of these people want to leave and want you to make the first move. Also they can't help themselves. It's an addiction.[/quote]

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