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Reply to "is DH being an unreasonable brat, or am i stressed and being too sensitve?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP it is one weekend and you said it was to celebrate him. Of course he doesn't want to be watching the kids while he is trying to spend time with friends. You are wrong here.[/quote] She might be wrong to want him to be on parenting duty that weekend, but every time she suggests hiring help, he shoots it down. At that point he moves into the unreasonable jerk category.[/quote] and everyone knows you can't count on people you didn't hire to do too much work. People will let you down. Her dh is a jerk and he would have been shut down the minute he suggested he wasn't going to do anything to help. I have a dh who did that to me the first year of our marriage. He socialized and had a blast while I was treated like the maid. I don't care that it is one weekend. If a celebration for one of us makes the other feel like a maid or hired help, something is wrong. Op's dh needs to be celebrating with her and her support of him through his endeavors. This selfish "it's all about meeeee" is something a 5 year old does. [/quote]
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