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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We teach women they don't need to even start getting serious about men until their early 30s. By then, a single 32-year-old man is looking for a woman in her 20s.

We can mock the women who settled down in their early 20s as not being modern, ambitious, independent, motivated, or smart. Women are told that making marriage a priority in her 20s makes her a loser.

Then she gets into her 30s and says "I'm ready to settle down" and she can't find anyone.

A woman who makes marriage a priority at age 23 is sort of a rebel today. Seriously. She is going against the grain of her peers, bucking the message society keeps sending her and doing the opposite.

Maybe it's the message sets sending you?

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Interesting. I married my husband at 23. He had a master's in statistics. I was a nanny with a high school diploma. I knew I wanted to be a SAHM. Ten years later, we have two kids, and I work part-time. I met a lot of moms in my 7+ years as a nanny and the majority of them wanted to be a sahm or work part-time, but for whatever reason, they couldn't. I saw firsthand how hard it was gor them to balance work and kids. Even the SAHM, with hired help were stressed. I knew I didn't have a high-income potential, so I chose someone with a STEM degree. Some of my friends tried to hide it, but I knew they thought I was marrying too young. Guess which ones are almost 40 and unmarried? Having the man be the plan has worked out for me. 
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What do you do part time? [/quote]

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