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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The father probably talked to OP about her mom as if they were both her victim. He probably said things like, "I would LOVE to see you more but your mom moved you away and now I can't" or "Your mom makes it hard for me to see you" or "I wish we could spend more time together but, you live far away now" and my favorite -- "I miss you so much" (then why aren't you there???) making it seem as if it were all her mom's fault. Because cowardly weak men do that. Meanwhile it sounds like OP's mom didn't say much about her dad. People love to say, "Kids see through that" but they don't. They are influenced by the parent who says negative things about the other parent. That is a sad truth.[/quote]

pretty much. and like the fool op is, she is blaming her mother.

I’m shocked that Op is a woman.

I could understand if Op was a man because men don’t know what it’s like to be a woman.

You would think as a woman she would understand the fear, pain, and exhaustion her mother had to put up with being married to an alcoholic. What if he was need up killing her while being in a drunk rage? Who knows what he did to her or said to her in drunken rage when Op was not around???

Op is an awful daughter.[/quote]

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