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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'd put my foot down personally. Does not bode well for optimism about the marriage. I wouldn't marry someone who wanted to do this. But maybe I have different ideas about what marriage is than others.[/quote]

All the red flags not the least of which he doesn’t seem to give AF about your financial security, OP. Run. [/quote]

Why he needs to do that when Op doesn't bring anything to the table. Op, doesn't have a job, probably don't contribute in the family expenses and retirement and now want her share in his house. Looks like she could completely screw his kids over. [/quote]

She’s a homemaker caring for his home and his child. That is what she brings to the table. That is a contribution - a big one.[/quote]

His kids are adults and he had a home before she came in his life so looks to me that she is getting to stay for free, and let him support her kids financially and now want more without contributing financially. That's not bringing enough to the table, sorry. [/quote]

Then he can reimburse her for 7 years of FT childcare, housekeeping, and other errands at the market rate, as well as what a surrogate would have cost. Don’t forget her forgone social security contributions. My guess is that all adds up to about half the home equity. [/quote]

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