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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have an only child who my everything. My child is a toddler and approaching an age where if I’m going to have another child it needs to be now for them to really be arguably close in age. What does everyone think about having an only child verse two children? Any thoughts and feedback much appreciated.  I am looking for exclusively the perspective of The benefits it would have on my child. (not necessarily for my benefit)[/quote]

OP I am having this same debate. My son is 4 and an only. I too am only child. My dh has a sister with a child, but they are not close. I don't anticipate my son having a close cousin or aunt relationship there. I will say that makes me want to try for a second child. I come from a small family, and I'd like my son to have some extended family. I know a sibling is no guarantee of a relationship (see eg my own DH) but seemingly having little to no relationship with the one aunt/cousin out there doesnt make me hopeful for the future.

It's hard bc life seems pretty perfect with him.[/quote]

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