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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I noticed with the Adam Levine controversy that the super feminist take among younger millennials and Gen Z is to victimize the “other woman” and make the husband the sole perpetrator, including situations where the husband is famous and known to be married with kids. [b]The husband IS most responsible for cheating on his wife, I agree with that. He’s the one who made promises he broke. [/b]But do women really not owe anything to other women anymore? It’s totally fine to be a side chick now , even when it’s publicly known that the wife has little kids at home?

I feel like I’m taking crazy pills watching all these young women fall all over themselves to defend that TikToker who had the affair with Adam Levine. I don’t care what lies he fed her, she knew he was married and she was an adult when their affair started. It’s interesting to me that it’s considered “unfeminist” to call her out for being a homewrecker or to tell her t9 shut her legs to married men. Why can’t two things be true at once? Adam Levine is a trash husband and I hope his wife leaves with half his fortune. But knowingly sleeping with married men is trash behavior too.[/quote]

So is your thesis “we are not being adequately cruel as a society to a woman who exposed a man for cheating on his wife”? Are you afraid that the scarlet letter she embroidered for herself was too beautiful?[/quote]

She wasn’t even apologetic though. I only watched 2 of her videos so idk, maybe she talks about being sorry somewhere else. But in the first two videos she released she makes herself out to be the victim when really the victim is the wife and kids. She knew he was married! What did she expect? The least she can do now is say she is sorry and regrets it.[/quote]

She doesn’t need to be apologetic to “us” as in the general public. The only person she *may have* contributed harm to is the wife of the man, and for all you or I know she told the wife as soon as the story was going to break and the wife was happy that she went public because it pushed a bunch of OTHER people to expose his creeping. That’s only going to help the wife in the long run if she decides to divorce him or get a post nup. She doesn’t owe you an apology. She doesn’t owe me an apology. And the idea that we all have to get together and call her a “slut” and tell her to “keep her legs closed” even though she never did anything to harm us is literally taken from A Scarlet Letter.[/quote]

She definitely did not tell the wife and publicly has said as much.  She also did not offer any sort of apology.

I could care less since I’m not involved in anyway, but I definitely formed an opinion about both Levine and the other woman as we all do when reading the news or hearing news reported that involve deceit and lies and scandal.  I’m sure people that have gone through something like this on any side are automatically triggered when events like this are dominating the airwaves.  People also tend to be empathetic to the betrayed/kids if they have gone through the ordeal themselves because they are brought back to the moment they themselves found out and the trauma that ensued afterwards.  It is one of those things that you can’t even fathom unless you have lived it.

[b]What happened to Bill Clinton[/b] and John Edwards or Mark Sanford.  They essentially disappeared after people saw the deceit and lies and poor way they treated others.  Anthony Weiner pops up in the news once in awhile but not in a good way.[/quote]

Literally nothing. [/quote]

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