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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am the same age as you, OP.  Keep us posted, I have debated this in my head for years and cannot come up with an answer for myself. Everytime I think about calling for a consult, I freak out because [b]I can't visualize having a conversation about this with my 9-year-old son and 13-year-old daughter. [/b] I also freak out and start loathing my barely A cup every time I hear of trans men getting top surgery or wearing a binder. I also keep thinking about what I'd do if I see 90/100---I mean, at that point, are my kids going to advocate for me to see a surgeon to have implants removed/replaced?

If I could go back in time, I would have saved up my money my senior year of high school and gotten the surgery the summer before I started college.

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OP here and i just saw this post was bumped.

This is a giant part of what gives me pause.  I have 15 year old twins.  I can't just disappear and have surgery OR be vague about it:  "I'm just having a procedure".  Sure, I can (and would) be frank and open with them that I am having surgery for myself. 
But I'd be lying if I said it wasn't awkward.  
Clearly there are women all over who have all sorts of cosmetic procedures and tell their kids "hey, I'm going in for my Facelift"  "I'm headed to have my liposuction done, be back this evening".   And their kids take it in stride. 
But it just doesn't seem in my wheelhouse as a mother AT ALL. [/quote]

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