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[quote=Anonymous]MOB was rude even if you didn't give a gift at all. However, I remember at my SIL's wedding, there were a few cards from people who FIL was sure gave a gift that were not there when SIL opened the gifts. Long story short, there were a few cards that were lost/stolen--they still aren't sure what happened and it was super awkward for FIL to follow up with those people. But he also didn't want them to think that she didn't send a thank you or wanted to alert them in case someone tried to cash the check. Maybe something like that happened. Generally, yes, you should send a gift if you don't go to the shower but were invited. But its definitely not tradition where I'm from that people only being cash to the wedding--plenty of people bought us registry or other gifts as wedding gifts. I can see where the MOB might be confused but to reach out is just rude. [/quote]
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