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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]I brought two foster girls into my home at the age of 4 and 5 years...they were a sibling group of 4...they are now 28 and 29 and [b]the biggest disappointment of my life[/b]...an adoptive parent of older children puts in countless hours trying to help these children work through their abuse...to love, care, and share as much as you do and to realize when they are grown that they choose to be just like their bio parents by abusing their children in the same way is heartbreaking...no one can ever understand the pain unless you've walked the walk...the bio mom of my girls had a total of 11 children through out the years and they all have the same problems...some children can not be helped...those who can are blessed.[/quote]

[b]You should be ashamed of yourself. [/b]

Get yourself some help and reach out to the children that you committed to. They are your family and you don't get to foist your failures on their bio parents. Make it up to them. Today.[/quote]

You should be ashamed of yourself for judging a situation you know nothing about. I don't know this woman but do know plenty of adoptive and foster parents and this woman's story is not unusual at all.  Children can be very scarred early in life by their situation and no amount of love can fix the problems later on.  They end up with serious mental health issues.  [/quote]

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