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[quote=Anonymous][quote] Gloating that your kids have a poor relationship with their dad and that you feel no remorse for cheating is really not a good look. Sounds like you should have left your first marriage AND waited to start dating until you were divorced. Both things can be true.

Wow, you really lack empathy. I hope your black and white outlook serves you well. There is so much more nuance in what’s written above but you selfishly focus in on the only point that matters to you. I would take my dad cheating on my mom 50000 times over than my dad beating my mom. God. Who wouldn’t??? Obviously both aren’t great but life is messy and things happen. Teach your kids to be human and recognize how to manage adversity without it defining them.[/quote]

What a strange response.  PP noted that the abused should have left. No one suggested that abuse is acceptable.  PP pointed out that there was no zero sum game. As has been stated many times in this thread, the best response to an unacceptable marriage is to divorce, not to cheat.

I agree that the abused poster seemed almost proud that her kids were “siding” with her and refusing a relationship with their father, and that’s sad for her kids.[/quote]

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