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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As someone sitting here drinking a nice cocktail, just like I do most nights, I do not understand what OP is going on about.

I feel sad for OP's husband that he has to hide drinking a little bit of alcohol.[/quote]

Im starting to agree with some folks that this op is a troll (op isn't responding to any legit advice, just stirring the pot responding with extensive details on things like why he uses a different bathroom), but still am struggling to understand how some people are failing to understand the difference between sitting and having a nice cocktail in the evening and drinking peppermint vodka in the shower during the day? whether the op is real or not, I really hope all of you responding with this don't ever have a child or close family member start to deal with substance issues because it is going to go right over your head until it gets bad. In the op, the husband drinks plenty with the spouse (beer and wine in the evening or with friends, normal), it just happens that HE decided, in discussion with his wife to not drink hard liquor since he had a hard time controlling it.

Arguing that sneaking/hiding and drinking PEPPERMINT VODKA (pretty sure that wasn't what you were sipping on tonight...) during the day is not disordered behavior with alcohol is simply a lack of understanding of substance use disorders. What you describe doing tonight is normal alcohol use, what op describes is not. Hard stop. Whether it's real or not.[/quote]

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