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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think this is your fault, OP. you should never explain while apologizing. You sound very controlling. Men don't like that. Clean that up or you'll end up in your 40s still single wondering why men are "mean" to you. [/quote]
This is dumb. So he’s allowed to accuse her of leaving a mess and she’s just supposed to say “Sorry!”[/quote]

Look,she can say whatever she wants but if she wishes to stop being rejected by men then she could learn how to apologize. Does she not sound totally insufferable to you? [/quote]
Lol no? She sounds like she has low self-esteem but otherwise I have no issues with OP. She got dealt a shitty hand. My biggest wish for her is that she learns to trust herself. I guarantee there was something that happened within the first year of dating him that was a massive red flag but she either didn’t know it was a red flag due to inexperience at dating or she did but she loved him, thought she could help him/change him, etc. [/quote]
This, if you read her first post she says they had issues during covid and she had her doubts about him and the relationship. That I think is normal, especially during an unprecedented global pandemic. But now I am wondering what kind of issues they were. Some could be normal things to have doubts about, others could be like, actual red flags that she ignored.

The biggest mistake we make in parenting girls and talking to them about relationships is we say “dating and marriage is work!” It’s work, but it’s joyful work. If a boyfriend is making you cry, or says nasty things to you when you fight, or freaks out that you accidentally spilled something…that is too much work. [/quote]

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