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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]NP and only read half the thread.  What if DH is too lazy to get birth control?  DC2 is 3 mo old, and I thought we had an agreement that DH would get snipped.  He now refuses.  I'd rather not have surgery, take hormones, or place a foreign object in my body, especially since I was on bcp for ten years and I gave birth twice.  I feel like it is now his turn to do something.  He has approached me a handful of times in the last few months, and I've asked him what we plan to use for birth control.  We have none, so no sex.  Does this make me a WS?  And WS or not, does it make me wrong?[/quote]

Agree that he is being an ass, but why don't you just throw a box of condoms in the cart at the grocery store?  [/quote]

Not the poster who posed this question, but I had a similar issue.  I tried going back on bc pills after 2nd child (I was only able to bf for 2 mos), and every prescription the doc issued me was making me sick - I think I tried 3 different types of pills.  Husband encouraged me to go off of pills as they were making me ill.  We were not having sex very often for various reasons.  I knew that he was anxious for some sex, so I was going to take one for the team.  I was/am very pregnancy averse as I know/knew I was done having kids.  When we were about to do the deed, I presented him with a condom.  As he hadn't needed to use a condom in many years, he bucked against it and told me it wouldn't feel right and started throwing a tantrum on how he wouldn't wear it.  WTF?  Long of the short, we did not have sex that day and there were lots of attitudes being thrown around.  [/quote]

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