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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would have just gone to the BBQ and not changed OP. Let your dh have a fit in front of others or call you a bumblebee. The more people who hear him the better. If he gets worse, you will need witnesses.[/quote]

I think you and a bunch of other are not carefully reading the OP:

"When DH saw me he flipped out. ... He asked me to change and I said no. He said he would go without me then, which he did (and took the kids)."

OP didn't have the option to just go and not change. [/quote]

Do they have a second car? Does she have money to pay for an Uber? Then she has options.

If she doesn't work, they don't have a second car, and she has no money of her own, OP is really in trouble. [/quote]

You really think OP should have Uber'd to the party when her obviously controlling DH was "flipped out" over her outfit and left her. What scene do you expect to unfold at someone else's BBQ when she gets there after him but solo? In front of the kids and everyone else? And what do you think he'd do when they got home?

The people who think this guy isn't abusive are not paying attention. OP is in a very difficult spot, so what other posters would do if it were their spouse is irrelevant -- it's not your spouse, it's this nut case.[/quote]

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