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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When did you last check in about this? If it was a month or so ago, I’d be honest with him — I’m waiting for a relationship to have sex, I’m very attracted to you, but if you feel like you’re not ready I wonder if maybe this just isn’t the right situation for us? You might get a response you’re not expecting, like a yes I am able to commit. But either way clarity at this point would be good.[/quote]

OP: we last checked in about 2 weeks ago. At that time, I told him that I'm very attracted to him and would like to sleep with him, but that I would feel more comfortable waiting until we decide we're ready for a relationship. He knows that I am. He told me that he's "smitten" with me and that he has taken down his online dating profile. We left it as we agreed to keep doing what we're doing, no pressure.

I don't want to keep doing the same thing indefinitely, though.[/quote]

This seems pretty exclusive and a relationship. I do not know what else you want. [/quote]

NP I’d want a sign of commitment.[/quote]

What kind of commitment? I really don't get it. (mid-40s woman here) And personally, I would not offer any commitment until I know I am sexually compatible with someone. This is truly a confusing post to me.[/quote]

A sign that he's feeling enough to want a serious longterm relationship. I was probably a month into dating my husband when we reached that understanding. We slept together after that. [b]Maybe it's just me, but casual short term things don't do it for me.[/b] I want someone who's all in.

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They've been dating intensely and exclusively for three months. How is this casual or short term? If anything, OP is keeping it more casual by refusing to have sex (even though she [i]is[/i] having sex, make no mistake.[/quote]

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