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[quote=Anonymous]This is actually pretty classic. Middle age is full of pressure that triggers all kinds of past emotional insecurities from own unresolved traumas and abuse from our parents and the cycle begins again. Women are generally better at spotting it but/c society just enables the male, head of household perspective and doesn’t value emotional education or labor. OP though has to just focus on herself and determine what is acceptable for her going forward and how to clearly communicate and boundary set. There is not an absolute right or wrong path forward, but it does require effort and hard emotional work no matter if there’s an eventual divorce or not. [/quote]
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