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[quote=Anonymous]OP. I dated a guy with a family who was horrible to me. Would come down to visit and make rude comments about my religion and background. Told me once at their house that they wished he would get together with his old girlfriend. I ended up leaving him over his parents. This is regular involvement from parents and not even that over the top. My cousin lives in the same town as her in laws and they tell her what to do with her children all the time. Her parents have certain standards that they impose like being upset if you don’t write a thank you card or requiring certain vacations for the extended family. They get along with both parents because they appreciate them and see their help as beneficial and have great jobs and friends so that their parents aren’t their whole world anymore. Both of them are heavy and the entire family tells them to lose weight but have had to back off after making sure they knew. I’m sure there are a few things they have told their parents to back off on. But it isn’t a day to day problem of getting upset over interference. They just go with the flow on 99 percent of interactions and trust that these people are in their lives to love them and the kids. And my cousins husband could care less about dishes. He helps out but in no way owns the kitchen like that. [/quote]
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