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Reply to "We just started dating and she called me out over a joke. Petty?"
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[quote=Anonymous]This is the equivalent of guys who insist on doing something in bed that you have said you dislike because “all my other girlfriends like this!” She is an individual, and so are you. You did something that she does not like and she told you so. Three things can happen now: 1) You accept that she means what she says and then work hard to modify your behavior so that you are treating her as she likes to be treated 2) You continue these kinds of jokes and she dumps you over it 3) The worst case scenario: you continue these jokes and she gives up trying to stand up for herself. Over time her resentment of you grows but because you are constantly telling her that her feelings don’t matter, she tries to ignore them. Then 10, 15 years in when you have kids and friends and financial ties she finally hits the wall and realizes she should have chosen someone who truly loves her and is kind, rather than someone who doesn’t mind hurting her. THEN she dumps you.[/quote]
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