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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP don’t listen to these people blaming you for not giving enough, or not being the right kind of person. It’s not about that. I’ve had friendships where I gave a lot, checked in when they were ill, babysat so they could have a night out, started a meal train for them, etc., and they bailed on me when I needed help. I’ve also had people help me out if the blue even though they barely knew me. It’s not a 1:1. Some people are generous, some are not. Some people will only help if it serves them in some way. Others help out if the goodness of their hearts. [/quote] This 100%. I call/text everyone to check in and see how people are doing when they are having difficult times or just because. Rarely do people reciprocate. It is definitely not a 1:1. Give what you can when you can out of the kindness of your heart not expecting anything in return. Maybe you'll find others willing to do the same for you. [/quote]
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