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[quote=Anonymous]For a variety of reasons, I suspect my brother is gay. He's in his 30's now but I have kind of always believed this, he was about 9 the first time I remember wondering, but thought he would have come out by now. I honestly do not care if he is or isn't, I love him either way, I just want him to be happy. He seems more secretive and withdrawn the last few years, just not at all like himself. He just seems like something is weighing him down and in my mind I keep coming back to this. Our extended family is pretty homophobic and has shunned other gay family members and makes really inappropriate comments about them when they are not around, so I do wonder if he is afraid or perhaps has just chosen to keep this part of his life private. I have not brought this up with him for nearly 25 years so could certainly go another 25 without raising it -- but I wonder if perhaps I should? Maybe there is a way to "invite" or make it feel safe for him to come out? Or a way to say, if you are gay, it's okay and I love you. appreciate any thoughts you may have! [/quote]

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