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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do APs genuinely believe the things these guys tell them?! I’ve never had any part in an affair as AP or spouse but I could never sleep with someone who made nasty mean comments about his wife, or even ex. Some of these comments saying the men are criticizing their wife’s body, appearance etc in detail in front of APs are so gross! How could you even be attracted to a man that does that??[/quote]

My AP only speaks very highly of his wife.  He never criticizes anything about her.  If I complain about my husband he doesn’t want to hear it and he doesn’t join in about his wife.

We don’t bring up our spouses very often.  Frankly, I try not to think of mine and I certainly do not want to be reminded of her.  I had to ask him not to send any photos with her in them.

I would think it was a red flag and I’d think a guy was a loser to be married to someone he speaks that poorly of.  Although, I have to admit, it would make me feel better if my AP brought up at least a fault or two of hers.  She is very pretty and accomplished and I have always been insecure about that and jealous of her.  I made the mistake of complaining about her once when he couldn’t see me because of something she needed him for and he didn’t talk to me for several weeks after that.[/quote]

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