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I leave for work at 630. Before I leave I prepare the baby’s breakfast, what else he needs for the day. My husband wakes up at 7 but reads his news for 45 minutes because he says he needs to start his day right. So he wakes up the baby changes the diaper and dresses him but his meal; etc all done by me. [/quote]

There’s a certain tone when you speak about your husband that indicates that you don’t think he is managing his free time the way you should.

The thing is, healthy people do this.  They budget extra time in the morning to start their day right.  They relax by watching tv before bed after the baby is put down for the night - even if that means there’s some dishes in the sink.  They share childfree time with their spouses on the weekend, especially when that spouse indicates that she wants more hands on time with the baby, so they can maintain their hobbies.

His views on free time may differ from yours but that doesn’t make him wrong.[/quote]

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