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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm a woman, and really surprised by how many people jumped on the OP.. I disagree that A. sweatpants look good on anybody,  B. OP can't express how he feels, and C. he can't ask for something to change so he feels better.

OP, I'd focus on the fact that your wife didn't want to get dressed up to go on a date. I would talk to her and say you're worried about her mental health because she doesn't want to go on a date with you, is she okay, does she need help finding a therapist to talk with, etc.  [/quote]

OP here. I apologize for not being clear. My wife will go out on a date, but a date at a place where sweatpants are generally frowned upon is no-go.[/quote]

Thank you for clarifying. That's still an issue to be addressed. How far does this go? Would she refuse to attend a wedding because sweatpants would be frowned upon? A funeral? Jury duty (although I've seen defendants wearing sweatpants there)? [/quote]

My wife would not wear sweatpants to a wedding, funeral, or job interview. She has not attended any of those events since COVID started. She has worn sweatpants to jury duty. [/quote]

Sweatpants should stay in the home, to and from a workout, or you are recovering from some medical issue.

Otherwise they should not be worn in public. Same with PJ pants
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I’m sorry the modern world is so hard for you.[/quote]

It’s not hard for me. I get dressed properly everyday. I have a great career, leave the house every day and care about my appearance.

I’m sorry life is hard for OP. I wouldn’t stay married to a sloppy person.
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I wouldn't marry someone who cared more about how I look than how I feel.[/quote]

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