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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If he is the cognitively impaired taking him to siblings house along with elderly/infirm ILs, for the afternoon is crazy just for a bigger yard (since Elderly ILs would be comfortable in their own home as would your DH). What are you doing OP?  You are picking and choosing things to be outraged about. It does seem that you are fine with Covid risks and kids running around and taking DH and ILs out but putting your foot down on an overnight at the house where you are staying.

You aren't being consistent in your convenes which means it is hard for anyone to figure out an alternate plan. [/quote] In what way is she being inconsistent?  The first plan was the best plan! OMG  We can all see that that was a great plan. It is the sibling that is now trying to change up it and not accepting any compromise. The OP is being more than accommodating IMO.  She is taking care of her old in-laws AND her dying husband AND her children.  Don't you think she has enough on her plate? The sibling should be counting their blessings.

I think the sibling should be in the long game instead of changing this AFTER she agreed with them.  She has a SIL willing to do the dirty work of caring for her elderly parents.  That is HUGE.[/quote]

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