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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What did the MIL say?  Can't comment until we know what the MIL said.

Also, what culture is BIL from? Is he raised here? Is he the same immigrant culture as yours? FOB? 2nd Gen? What?[/quote]

OP here. MIL told them that she didn’t like the way they had done their patio and that it didn’t look good as someone else’s. BIL is from the same culture (Pakistani.)[/quote]

That’s not bad. If your family can’t say your patio or haircut or painting job isn’t as good as before or XYZ, who can!?!!

But if she’s doing like 5 comments like that a day, she needs to reign it in. But BiL needs to detach and go crazy. Yelling is for emergencies. [/quote]

No one? Really your relationships will be better if you don’t give unsolicited negative feedback.[/quote]

Yeah my FIL once told me a story about buying a new car and a so called friend of his only had one thing to say.  That another brand of car was so much better.  My FIL asked him "Is your heart so black"

I still remember it to this day because its true.  People are proud and want to enjoy the nice things in their life.  You don't come along and rain all over that.  Only really critical negative not nice people do that.  Is it really so hard to simply let people enjoy the things in their life.  Tell them its great.

People are so hung up on one word 'b*tch' but they forget what led to that one word.  If you are cruel and insensitive or insulting to people over and over, they may lose patience and respect for you.  Its a lesson we learned in school, if you want friends you play nice.  Whilst it may not have been a great reaction, I tend to feel sorry for this BIL who has to put up with this MIL who simply has a black black heart.  People are saying its not ok to be verbally abusive but they seem to be fine with this MIL being emotionally abusive.[/quote]

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