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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Not the "mentally ill" PP, but the idea of soulmates is still pretty ridiculous. You think in a world of 9 billion people, there is a single person out there who is The One (as deemed by who?) that should be your partner? Come on.

And I'm not saying that because I don't believe in chemistry or attraction or anything -- I too am in a situation where I am in infatuation/near-love with someone who is not my husband. I'm simply realistic enough to understand it's because of things missing in my marriage, not because of some pre-ordained decision by the universe that our souls are connected and we're meant to be together  :shock: [/quote]
I don’t believe ‘the one’ exists but I do believe in soul mates, possibly multiple soul mates. It’s sounds crazy maybe but I believe in it. I married a very practical man who is deeply in love with me, he is handsome, a great provider and hard worker. I feel like I should have better chemistry with him, but I don’t. I have chemistry toward someone else’s husband for some reason and I think the feelings are mutual. It’s a scary feeling, I almost feel out of control, I can’t stop thinking about him.[/quote]

For crying out loud having “chemistry for someone else’s husband” does not make this person your soul mate.  You describe this as a “scary feeling.”  You know why?  Because what you are ruminating about has the potential to blow up your life and harm the people you love.  That’s why it is scary and producing a visceral reaction in you.  If anything, the guy is probably a predatory creep, which also can produce that “scary” feeling even if you don’t quite understand the reason for it.  Please get your head out of your backside, see this for what it is - and knock it off immediately.   [/quote]

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