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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As someone who is child-free by choice, I find it immensely odd when these discussions come up that so many think CFBC people pass on kids because of "travel and fun!" like we're perpetually stuck in our early 20s backpacking phase. Most of the CFBC people I know made that decision for bigger reasons such as knowing they wouldn't be good at it, or chronic illness, or intense jobs, or just it flat out didn't appeal to them. I don't think I've ever heard someone say, "think of all the travel and fun!" Weird.[/quote]

It’s just like how married people think singles are all out on dates, going shopping or having brunch all the time. I stopped doing that stuff in my early thirties. On Friday and Saturday nights, I’m home reading and cuddling with my dog. I have a job and bills to pay, and I’m tired, just like every other middle aged person. 
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One of my friends married when we were both about 25. Ten years later her husband leaves her and she’s texting me all the time to ask if I want to get mani pedis, or and go out for dinner and cosmopolitans. I[/b]’m like Hon, Sex and the City isn’t real and I haven’t had one of those since 2002. I stay home every night and have a hookup or two per year. She got married again pretty quickly. [/quote]

LOL. If find  this assumption hilarious.  People are genuinely shocked I'm not out drinking and going on spa days all the time. Like I'm near 40 with bills to pay, and as the only childless sibling, a lot of the care and responsibility of my aging parents falls on me. I work. I occasionally go on a hike. I volunteer at the animal shelter and hospital.  [b]I may go on a trip once every 2-5 years[/b]. Partying every night, I don't think I ever did, and I haven't been to a bar since I was  somewhere between 35 and 28, can't exactly remember.[/quote]

Now that’s SAD af.

31 here with two kids and travel twice every year. Sometimes more. This whole cancel culture toxic anti white have no kids and tax me to death over climate change is the demise of the west. Kudos to you and your brain dead weaklings following you[/quote]

Someone says they don’t go on many trips, and THIS is your take? [/quote]

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