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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If there's something about the current arrangement OP's wife doesn't like why isn't she saying something about it? OP, have you asked her why she continues to be so inconsiderate?[/quote]

I don’t use words like inconsiderate with her but I’ve expressed how much it frustrates me.  She just seems to dismiss my concerns, which is unlike her in regards to everything else aside from sleep.  I do think it annoys her I go to sleep early on weekdays.  But on the flip side the nights I push myself and stay up later my work performance suffers and I end up being a major grouch and she’ll make comments about me needing more sleep.   I do not know why this has become such a major issue. [/quote]

what do you mean by “my work performance suffers”? Does it really or does it “suffer” based on some metric you decided ? Are you following one of those productivity gurus by chance? Bc this sounds like the same kind of lines they use. I don’t think it’s wrong but I do think not all advice can be applied equally. I also wonder bc you won’t tell your DW that she is being inconsiderate. Is that bc she might say the same to you?

Maybe your home life and relationship are suffering? Does that matter?

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