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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why does it matter if someone chooses to hide their list? 
When people send paper invites or individual text invites 
You don’t know who else is invited.

Also as kids get older they start inviting select friends and not the whole class, or budget  reasons and some families might not be able to Invite the whole class. Either way why would you bring up a party to someone if you don’t know who else is invited ? I never bring it up and if someone asks for weekend plans I just say “oh we have a birthday Saturday and not too much going on Sunday “ why do you have to give specifics. 
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I’m honestly wondering if some of you people have friends in real life that you actually talk to… Maybe COVID really did a number on your social skills. I wouldn’t mention a kid’s party specifically in order to put some sort of state secret. I would mention the kid if my friend’s kid is also friends with them for many of the reasons noted here. If you don’t want people talking about your super special secret party, then let them know who else is invited! It’s really that simple. [/quote]

Sorry not sorry that I have better things to talk to my friends about than my children's social lives?[/quote]

Aha, but you guest list hiders are forcing me to drive both ways to a bounce house 35 minutes from my house with no real time to return home versus carpooling.  So that IS what I am doing with my weekend.  Driving to pump it up and then looking for a place to get a coffee and kill time until I can pick my kid up again.

I just get the feeling that you don’t talk to your friends much. We interact a lot in my neighborhood - going for a walk together after the kids get on the bus, taking a lunch break from work and eating together (this isn’t some sort of formal sit down, we have literally all just brought sandwiches from home but eaten them together at the park we can walk to), playing poker on a weeknight, book club, hanging out at the pool on the weekend. I don’t know, I see and talk to my friends a lot (and we all work and all have husbands who work). The first topic of conversation isn’t our kids’ social lives (which, by the way, isn’t the reason a party comes up),[b] it’s because we’re discussing our weekend plans, which is a totally normal thing to do[/b]! [/quote]

Kids parties at this age are drop offs, so yes, you are discussing your children's social lives.[/quote][/quote]

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