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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Np. I couldn't be bothered with being married to someone I couldn't trust.  For me the marriage and relationship would change instantly.

I understand it's nothing to others but it's not how I want to live my life.  I don't want to have to socialise only together because I'm scared of my husband going out without me. I don't want to worry about it happening again and how much further the lie goes.

I realise you have kids and that makes it hard.  I wouldn't be able to see my husband the same way again.  I guess for me, I'd lose respect for him completely.  I've remained faithful despite being tempted, I would have no faith in him again.  I'd divorce  but it's not my life.

Take your time to process what you want.  Don't be in a hurry.  [/quote]

Long marriage with kids and you are walking and making the kids lives forever out more difficult (2 different homes for holidays, etc, bdays) all because he confessed to a kiss.  That is jumping the gun and leads me to believe you certainly have not been in a long marriage with multiple kids.

There are so many steps and evaluations before “Divorce!!’.  Christ, she doesn’t even have all the facts yet.[/quote]

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