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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I recently finished reading Esther Perel's "Mating in Captivity." What a great book.  I found the following observation very interesting.

A woman can engage in serial monogamy:  get married, get divorced, engage in a few intra-marital sexual liaisons, get married again and we're someho :roll: w all fine with that, but a man in a 20 plus year marriage who has a ONS is a cheater!  :roll: [/quote]

Whyever not be fine with it? First, no reason to include gender. Both situations can happen to either gender. And the first situation described is completely legit. I don’t think sex is immoral. I don’t think ONS are immoral if you are single. But if you are married and have a ONS without permission, then yes, a problem. I don’t think divorce and remarriage is immoral. So the first situation is completely moral and ethically fine. But the second situation involves lying and cheating. Clearly another beast altogether. Your implying otherwise is simply wrong[/quote]

I wouldn’t have any issue with someone doing this in an open marriage. Transparency and trust are really bound up with intimacy.[/quote]

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