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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I recently finished reading Esther Perel's "Mating in Captivity." What a great book.  I found the following observation very interesting.

A woman can engage in serial monogamy:  get married, get divorced, engage in a few intra-marital sexual liaisons, get married again and we're someho :roll: w all fine with that, but a man in a 20 plus year marriage who has a ONS is a cheater!  :roll: [/quote]

Why wouldn’t we be fine with that? One is infidelity. The other is not.[/quote]

Why does “infidelity” however you define it mean the end of a relationship. Why wouldn’t make more sense to sleep around than break up a family multiple times so you can be “faithful?” Americans are idiots. 
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It doesn’t define the end of a relationship. It’s about honestly and not lying.

Esther Perel, bless her heart, is kind of an idiot. I know she is well-intentioned but she’s basically very victim-Blamey. I for one don’t care about monotony, or non-nuclear family structures. Those are fine and I don’t know what Esther Perel has against them.  Dishonesty, to me, is the problem. [/quote]

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