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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Oh well. She should have thought about that before pursuing a married man and breaking up his marriage. Now she wants a clean slate? Why does she think she would be welcomed with open arms? I wouldn't want her at my house either. Maybe at some point down the road, but not holidays, something more low key.[/quote]

And he was an innocent bystander here?  [/quote]

No. But he's family. She's nobody. But brother is a guest, if he doesn't want to abide by the rules he doesn't have to come either. People are a lot more accepting of bad behavior when it's their blood relative, if you haven't noticed.[/quote]

But apparently not accepting of said blood relative's personal choices.

You are out of line OP. Especially since you said that the divorce being final was some sort of deciding factor in whether or not she would be welcomed to family events. Now you are changing your minds. If you love your brother, have the maturity to accept his decisions, even if you disagree with them.[b] Right now you are just throwing a tantrum.[/b] [/quote]

Disagree. The brother was stupid. People get to react how they want when they want to work through it. Move goalposts or whatever, people get to grieve and fix it at their own speed. Cheaters get to accept the timeline even when it changes. [/quote]

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