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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, you can feel any way you want ... what you really need to know: how to act going forward. You act the same. If you want to have what you have now (at least), you act the same. Anything short of that and you say goodbye to being in this group. Suppose that might have ramifications for your husband/and his friends, don't know

You could consider -- it was a birthday. A birthday could be considered unique. You could let time pass, based on that. See how things feel 6 months from now.[/quote]

Here's the rub though. She'd literally be ACTING the same. Acting as in theater. Because she doesn't feel the same. Before, her relationship with them sounds like it was unguarded and not a performance. So she can act for awhile, and maybe after awhile, her feelings will shift and things WILL be ok; she can drop the temporary performance.

But it's more likely that she'll act like things are fine, but since they aren't actually fine, the damage has been done and the slow corrosiveness of mistrust is in the mix here.

I'm so sorry, OP![/quote]

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